you may have experienced confusion to choose between friend or girlfriend. Confused, a good word to describe your condition.On one side of a friend who had a very long and very close friends with you, invite you to hang out. But on the other side at the same time, his sweetheart, the one you love is also asking for your time with him. When the interests of friends and lovers collide like this, about which one would you choose? The best thing you can do include: 1. Be fair. Lover or friend, must have had different interests. Because you are the person closest to both parties, it is important that you should not forget is to be fair. Do not let any of them who feel secondary. Although it already has a lover, friend or friend does not mean to be forgotten. Vice versa, even though you and they have since long friendship, it does not mean sanga interests come second or even a forgotten boyfriend. The solution, for your time as possible. Try to keep the affair a girlfriend and a friend are not one-sided so as to make them cranky or angry with you. Anyone who does not want to be considered as the number two, you are too right. 2. Create a priority. The only way to overcome the confusion that often can make your head became dizzy this is to set priorities. Jelly in the catch, where the interest is more urgent and can not be postponed again. For example, if a friend asks you to meet because of a broken heart, while her boyfriend wanted to see just sekdar hang out, eat, eat, you can decide which one is preferred. Tell your lover, your friend is currently in need of your presence. As a lover of good, he will certainly understand. Vice versa, if you ask your lover to have besides for things that are urgent, while your friends ask you to come just to hang out. So, you must place the person you love it.Tell your friend, there will still be another day for you and your friends hang out to air-ria. 3.memberikan sense honestly. All of the above did not work if you are not honest and forthright to all parties. No need much reason or excuse especially mapuh use words such as "my good guns at .." solely for refusing an invitation one of them. Either lover or friend can certainly accept your condition. So, better be honest than you are confused later. Give also to their understanding that you are not do not want to meet his invitation, but only postpone wrote. 4. Gathered together. Let me set the time you are not confused for the road with friends and girlfriend, occasionally take them gathered together. There is no harm to know each other. Cried too right. You can introduce your friend to lover and vice versa. In addition, gathering together like this could be an alternative to understand the character of each.So if one day there was confusion vote, the reason you will make more sense for them. Because they also know who the friend or your lover